Simplified Guideline for the Groom

by JoAnn M. Grant, CPCE | Sep 26, 2010 | Uncategorized | 0 comments

The bottom line is, your job as a groom does not lie in just showing up on the day of the wedding. Remember that if you want this lifetime partnership to be a success, the wedding is your first step together. It does take two to tango and your opinion does matter.

Here is a list for the groom that I deem important. It is now up to you to glance at it and prioritize the list accordingly.

pick your best man and your ushers
help choose the boutonniere styles
purchase a gift for your bride
plan for your first dance, maybe suggest a choreograped dance
write your vow if you agreed to do this
make a playlist for the wedding reception
organize the transportation for you and your bride
organize the transportation for the wedding party
plan the honeymoon and get some input from your girl
pay for all legal documents like your marriage license
you are in charge in finding your groomsmen’s gear
make arrangements to pay for the vendors
arrive 30 minutes before the ceremony
pictures are a must so just think of your future together and SMILE!

Image from Gray Photograph

Happy Travels…

affectionately… -jo ann- 480-216-4630 Apropos Creations, LLC

JoAnn M. Grant, CPCE

With over 11 years of assisting brides, grooms and their respective families create this moment, Apropos Creations, a local Chandler, Arizona wedding and event planner, who services Phoenix, Scottsdale, Sedona, and the surrounding cities, will make this journey enjoyable and stress-free. You will be offered inspiring ideas and flawless coordination. Besides our basic wedding packages, Apropos Creations also specializes in multi cultural weddings and Southeast Asian weddings, destination weddings in San Diego, CA, San Jose, CA, San Francisco, CA and neighboring bay area cities and Philippines destination weddings. We pledge to you our devotion to make your wedding and event as unique as you. We want what you want, a perfect and beautiful day of memories to treasure throughout time.

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Simplified Guideline for the Groom

JoAnn M. Grant, CPCE

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